What do 360K+
singles really think?
Dating culture, real-life meetups, and what people genuinely want — broken down by city and demographic. Real opinions, no spin.
are up for a real
meetup this month
6,200+ responses · May 2026
average time to
arrange a first meetup
3,800+ responses · May 2026
The one every
member voted on.
"Are you genuinely open to meeting someone from LetsMeetUp this month?"
City breakdown — "Yes, I'm looking"
What the community
is talking about.
"How do you feel about dating apps right now?"
"How long before you'd suggest meeting in person?"
"What's your biggest dating frustration right now?"
"What type of first date do you prefer?"
"How important is physical proximity for a first date?"
"Do you tell friends when you're going on a first date?"
"How soon would you
meet someone in person?"
Results broken down by age. Within 48 hours wins across every group.
18–24
25–34
35–44
45+
Based on May 2026 member data. Rounded to nearest percent.
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